Monday, October 18, 2010

Introducing my middle brother: David

As kids he was my playmate, friend, and sparring partner. we would start out playing and end up trying to see how much pain we could inflict on each other, and see who would say uncle first. he usuallly won. lol
As we grew up he got interested in girls and i was lost for awhile. he left and went to Germany when he was in the military and I really felt lost. I never thought i would miss him as much as i did. I wanted to have those times with him that you share with your siblings during the teen years. But he was gone and I found myself missing him all the time.
then I came home one day and my mom said that David and his new german wife was coming home. and I was stoked. I went and stayed with him a month while he lived in fort eustus virginia. and we tried to make up for those years we lost but thats hard to do when he was married with 2 kids but we got close as we could and had alot of fun making up for lost time.
when he got out of the military, and my mom told me he was moving back home i was so happy. and what was so great is that he lived in walking distance so i could see him as much as i wanted. thats when we became close. but nothing good last forever and he told me he was moving back to germany for a few years cause his wife was homesick, and i tried to understand but i didn't really want to.
so back to life without my best buddy. and I thought this time he won't come back home. (not to stay)
But he called my dad one day after what seemed like forever and said that his life their had changed and he was getting divorced and he was coming home. when i saw him for the first time after he came back it was bitter sweet. i was so glad he was home but i could see the pain he was going through. and i felt so helpless. I had to fix him somehow. and the only thing i knew to do was make him laugh. so he come to stay with me and during the daylight hours we tried to laugh and have fun. and at night when it was toughest for him I tried to be their for him. but i honestly don't know if i did him any good.  but finally things started looking up for him and he started smiling again, and then laughing and he started to come out of it. all during this time we got closer and closer. and he had his flings during this time but you can bet your ass I was stuck to my buddy like glue. finally he discovers the woman that he was meant to be with, and they got married. and great thing about that is that she is my bestfriend so how cool is my life that both of my bestfriends live in the same house. lol I love him we're as close or closer than most brother and sisters are.
he can say something that noone else in the room understands but i get it. and vice versa.
so thats my middle brother.

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